Saturday, June 20, 2009

New photos of my kids..too cute not to share!

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I told Dahlia I wanted to take a picture and she immediately got down and posed with no direction from me!  Funny girl!

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Bella taking a bath in a bowl!  We don’t have a bath tub.

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She is pointing out her owie,  How do you spell that anyway?

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Pierce couldn’t be bothered to stay for more photos!  He wanted to get back to climbing on his bunk beds which he thinks are monkey bars.  Ok, at least he is enjoying them!

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As soon as Dahlia was done with the photos she said “I want to see Dahlia” pointing to the camera!  She loves to look at photos!Bella

Bella living up to her name.  What a gorgeous girl!  Lately it is hard to find a peaceful happy moment to take her photo.  She is lactose intolerant and we still have to supplement with formula and we are having real trouble finding a lactose free formula here that isn’t made of mostly corn syrup!! So I am sending out SOS messages to anyone in our church going back and forth between Australia and New Zealand.

Thank you all of you who have contributed to her beautiful wardrobe!  We really appreciate it!

WRITE US WE MISS YOU ALL VERY MUCH!!

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

New family photo

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Our new family photo!

What is going on at Preschool

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A photo of us at preschool (notice even Bella is with me in the sling!)

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Betina and Dahlia playing a game.

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We had a Discipleship training school here from New Zealand that volunteered at our preschool recently.

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Jimmy needs alot of prayer right now as his dad has lost his job and the land owner where his family has built a small shack has threatened to burn it down and cut all the trees down if His family doesn’t catch up on the rent!  Please pray because the same land owner did just burn down his cousins house right next door a few weeks ago for the same reason.

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Well Pierce is singing his heart out but I think Dahlia is looking a bit tired.

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Jimmy singing motions and all!  Please pray for his situation.  He will have to leave our preschool if all continues on the same track with them getting kicked out of their home for back rent.

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Puppets with the New Zealand team.  The kids LOVED it!

Rachel the teacher is about to have a baby (her 6th!) In July.  She needs a better living situation so we are really praying for answers.  She currently lives in a 2 !/2 meter by 21/2 meter square room with only two small mats for everyone to sleep on.  Which just means most of the family sleeps on the hard ground.  They are behind in their rent, and I just found out have often been going hungry when their food runs out.  Of course now that I know that we are sharing whatever groceries we have and will make sure her family always has food, but it is still a hard situation for them.  Her husband works 6 days a week at a resort near us doing manual labor and only makes the going rate of the US equivalent of $10 a day.  With the cost of food here that is simply not enough.  Their room costs $50 a month and that does not come with a toilet a yard or anything!

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We are trying to come up with some creative solutions for them, like helping her get supplies to make necklaces she can sell at the YWAM base to traveling teams and we are talking at YWAM about organizing and setting up a breakfast club in the village so that no one goes with out breakfast.  In the meantime we bring peanut butter and bread to the preschool  and let the kids know that if they have no breakfast (which is very common) they can come early to eat breakfast. 

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We will keep you posted as we progress.  Right now we are overwhelmed with need and opportunities, but God is great so we know we can come up with some solutions.  blessings! Kristy

Sunday, June 14, 2009

Moving, kids, and health…

We moved into a different place and we are enjoying the hot water and the oven!  As well as the much appreciated insulated roof that affords a much cooler (temperature wise) house.  It was unfurnished but God has just blessed us so much through people in our church.  Our good friends Julie and Shannon mentioned it at church (their the pastors) that we needed furniture as we moved here pretty empty handed and the new house was unfurnished and several people have really helped us out!  We now have a matching set of a love seat with 2 chairs, a storage chest (like a coffee table), a bed and mattress and a new set of metal bunk beds with mattress, and a kitchen full of dishes, a few pots, utensils and even mixing bowls, glasses and serving platters!  We were blown away by the generosity of our church! 

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Our church is very small and only has less than 50  people so it was amazing! What an amazing God we serve!  So here I sit on my love seat in the coolness of the shade of our house looking at a kitchen full of dishes and kitchenware that needs to be put away since we just got it today.  HOW AWESOME IS THAT!!  Shannon even delivered the furniture for us, oh and we had a truck to run errands this weekend that someone lent us !  Did I fail to mention my sister & her husband sent us a hard drive for our computer that after a little borrowing here and there is full of season of our favorite tv shows and TONS of movies. It is awesome!  We have no tv or tv service so this acts as our entertainment center and the best part is we can watch what we want when we want without commercials!! Thank you Janel and Kevin!!

Sickness wise we are mostly good!  But Bella has a serious diaper rash that is an allergic reaction to the formula we use as it is not lactose free.  I am still nursing most of the time but still have to supplement with about 3 bottles a day of formula.  Please pray we can get some lactose free formula.  I am trying to get some teams coming from New Zealand to our base to bring some when they come and I can pay them when it arrives.

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We have 2 teams of doctors, nurses and other medical professionals at the base at the moment here on outreach.  Ywam hosts a lot of outreach teams every year and does a great job setting up outreaches for them.  They have been doing local clinics in the poorest villages, they visited our preschool and did a clinic there as well as a very basic teaching on health, they also teach at the local nursing schools and volunteer at the hospital.  It has been great to hear what God is doing through them,  Lots of full healing miracles, and seeing where Gods heart is.

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Through this team and other events we are seeing a DESPERATE need for a type of a safe house / foster care home and feeding projects for the unwanted kids all over this island in the poorest villages.   We just found out how bad Angelina's (one of Pierces good 7 yr old friends from the village) situation really is.  Rachel the teacher told me she has seen her selling still green papayas at the little kava bars for 20 vt (like .20 us) just to try to scrape some money together for food.

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  Her grandparents  who she lives with have some meals but she usually goes without breakfast for lack of funds.  We also just found out how badly abused she really is.  Once I told her (she knows me from teaching the preschool with Rachel and playing at my house a lot ) that we want to know if someone is hurting her so we can help her situation she opened up.  She showed me a scar on her head where her uncle had beat her with a stick (read big stick) till he left a bloody gash.  I asked if she was happy with life and she said no.  I asked about her family if she felt wanted and loved and she said no.

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She lives with her grandparents as her mother abandoned her with them when she was a baby.  Her Uncles and aunties live with them as well.  When I found out the scope of these problems we started praying and praying asking God for a solution and we are still waiting on the full answer but we doing a few things.  First of all she now knows she can come any day for breakfast or a meal if she has no food.

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We are trying to raise a little support to help provide the preschool with food for a healthy breakfast for the students, as we found out quite a few are having to go with out breakfast for lack of it.  (let us know if you want to give toward that).  We are also trying to help them raise funds (the teacher who lives in a tiny room in a shack and Angelina who is 7 or 8) by helping them make something like necklaces or paintings or sarongs that we would then sell them for them at the YWAM base to all the visiting outreach teams (we have a lot) with the proceeds going directly to them. 

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We cannot also help but see the immediate need for some kind of safe house or foster home for some of these seriously neglected kids.  We don't currently have the funds or the space to do it, but we are waiting on God to see what we could do to make it happen at some time.  Ywam is currently already looking at several pieces of property for a relocation of the base as we are growing and need a larger facility, so we are keeping this need in our mind as we do that.  Please be praying.  We would need more staff, a larger facility, and more resources.  But we believe God is the ALMIGHTY not just another religion so we shall see what He does.  I know it breaks his heart and we want to be part of the solution.  There are so many stories like Angelinas.  Too many.  I am trying to get little stories like this of the kids that need your prayers the most so that I can post them on the blog with a photo and you all can commit to praying for them at least weekly.  THEY NEED IT!! 

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I will blog soon with a story of one of our little preschoolers who's home was burnt down and all food plants chopped down because they got behind on their rent.... Horrible story and the same land owner is threatening her cousin Jimmy's (from preschool that I have mentioned before) family since they are getting behind as well.  I plan to go take photos and post them for prayer.  It is Babette's family who was literally burnt out of their home.  They have moved and we don't know where.  Please be praying for them.  Babette was one of our little students.  HAVE mercy Lord.  Help us to help these people!

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Josh is waiting to hear on that job that they were bidding on months ago and it is now down to two companys.  Please pray for that.  He also has an in with a friend from church for a job interview as an oncall telecomunications field guy.  don't know much about that but please be praying for that as well.  We need a financial break through.   Thank you all for your friendship.  We feel so blessed to have you all as a great home network of friends that we know are there for us!

Miss you all dearly and thank you all so much for all your prayers!  I will try to make sure I start blogging once a week.  Blessings Kristy, Josh, Pierce, Dahlia and Bella!

Quote of the week…Pierce

When walking through the jungle trail we always walk on to the base

“Mom, let me go in front cause i know fu kung!!

Uh.. I think he meant Kung Fu!  He now calls himself the fu kung master… He is in karate but seeing as he has had all of 2 lessons I think that is a bit of a stretch.  He he Boys will be boys. 

Josh is actually doing karate with him as well.  The class is so cheap!  It is $15 a month for 2 times a week. Pierce loves it and we love all the energy he expends!IMG_1699

Him at the park going down the slide…

Sunday, May 31, 2009

The little house we just moved into

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We just moved from the other house about 2 blocks away to this house.  My parents are still staying in the house we were in the village.  We moved so we could get the kids out of the village (This house is off the main road right before the village) for sickness reasons and a more convenient walk with the stroller to YWAM.  Now we can avoid the giant mud puddles that are really  hard to navigate in the stroller.  As soon as our lease is up in July my parents will move out of the other place and we will see what we do then.  Notice the 2 papaya (or paw paw as the Auzzies call it) trees.

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Here is our messy living room as we haven’t found a place to put anything yet since we have no furniture.  So we are praying that in. You can see the kitchen through the pass through.  This house stays much cooler than the other house.

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Josh and I and Bella’s room. Sheets are on the line drying.  Bella is laying content a rare thing lately!

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Sorry I didn’t clear off the table but I thought if I tried to clean everything up you wouldn’t get any photos as it was one or the other before the baby needed me again!  The table from the landlord needs serious work as it is a shop type of table made with scrap lumber that the landlord had.  But the Oven (to have one!) is a serious upgrade for us!  Yeah!!

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our tiny sink in our little bathroom.

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The rest of our bathroom (shower & toilet). 

This house has hot water!

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This is Pierce and Dahlias bed room.  Notice the bed goes into the doorway.  Can’t shut the door yet, but some friends of ours here had some bunk beds they are not using so they are giving them to us.  That will be great since the room is so small.

Grace upon Grace…

(written around May 19th or so)

It is weird to explain but we are finding so many other blessing in the midst of these trials.  I am sure by our 911 prayer emails it sounds like a hopeless or miserable situation but daily we are finding joy and blessing and encouragement to be here.   Although we have struggles we want to be here even though  we do miss home and the comforts that came with that like income, familiar food, and even our infrastructure in the US.

If you have never left the country for an extended amount of time on a missionary budget you may not know how hard it is, but it can be rough at times.  Everything is different even cooking and grocery shopping not to mention the differences when you suddenly find yourself with out much money to live on and are having to completely rely in faith on God to literally supply for your next trip to the grocery store.  Plus all the sickness.  The sacrifice is not with out reward though.

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(this photo is from the annual celebration of when the gospel first came to Vanuatu.  The local church was congregating outside)

Blessings come in at just the right time or last minute.  In my prayer time yesterday (not usually as long as I want it to be since I now have 3 busy kids under 5!) I got Isaiah 51 which talks about Gods joy and gladness and constant salvation and was so encouraged.  I know that Gods heart for us is Joy and Gladness and reliance on Him in all times.  we are finding that in the midst of trial.

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(Pierce with a baby turtle from when our friends took us to turtle bay with them)

Like yesterday for example.. I had a VERY trying day with the kids.  Pierce is still sick with a stomach bug, Dahlia has these blistering sores all over that are spreading (impetigo? I think it is) and my dad was still pretty laid up with his massively infected foot...I just could not get on top of things chore wise and could not find time to sit with out someone crying or needing me or trying to diffuse a situation with the kids.  So my back was tired, I was dying to read the email that had been downloaded from the internet at the base earlier by Josh but that was simply NOT GOING TO happen.  But later in the day Bella finally fell asleep (after what seemed like a whole day of holding  her and trying to get her back to sleep constantly), I had a great meeting with the teacher that I am working with at the preschool, and 3 yes I said 3 packages arrived for us, and Josh was finally feeling much better!  We had just spent our last dollar (literally) on diapers and laundry soap and our dear friends Julie and Shannon showed up with a box of food goodies that are usually too expensive to buy like imported apples, cereal, juice, special cookies and milk as well as a few other things.  What a treat!  

Then we got a package from Kathy & Becca Sanderson in Alaska filled I mean filled to the brim with treats for everyone!  Brand new gifts and clothes for Bella,Pierce and Dahlia as well as food treats for everyone!  IT was such a blessing!! We were shocked and they sent some cash that came at JUST the right time. 

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And the third package came from Australia with an old staff member of Ywam that came for a visit and heard we had adopted.  Mind you this is someone we had never met or spoken to they just heard about us from our friends here.  She came with clothes for Bella and a two small stuffed animals and shirts for Pierce and Dahlia!  What a blessing. IMG_1559

(this photos is a random photo as I have a VERY thin selection of photos at the moment as ALL my photos got deleted on my computer by a virus but I have to keep my blogs picture heavy to keep you reading! So read on..)

So in the middle of a trying day God reached out and through 3 different people from 3 different countrys sent us a blessing and encouragement!  Then while Josh was out he ran into a friend from church and ended up spending the day with him and by the end of the day this friend offered us a car to use so we could take our parents up to see our land.  That was a huge blessing as we have been here almost 4 months and that has never happened (the loan of a car).  We just felt so blessed. 

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(Pierce & Dahlia w/ new slippers from the Carley’s in New Zealand!)

Were we still tired, still experiencing some sickness, surrounded by laundry and broke?  Yes but by the end of the day we felt blessed, encouraged and strengthened.  God is so good. 

SO as far as sickness Josh no longer has hepatitis (PRAISE GOD!!) just a cold now, Pierce seems healthy, I have a cold and Dahlia is still suffering some kind of blistering skin infection that is causing sores., and a bad cold.  Please pray for our continued healing.

Friday, May 15, 2009

CRAZY WEEK…

Just keeping my head above water these last two weeks.  Josh has all the symptoms of hepatitis, my parents arrived (into our 525 sq ft home) with lots of luggage & supplies, dad has a bad foot infection and can’t walk, baby crying and both girls not sleeping well at night….., new team arrived at  the ywam base BUSY!

So please pray and I will post photos and more later. 

YOUR PRAYERS ARE WORKING!! THANK YOU!

THANK YOU ALL YOU PRAYERS!  WE sent out our 911 prayer request for us while Josh was sick and we were all going crazy with only one parent well.  The kids usually have a REALLY hard time going to bed, actually Dahlia has a hard time and sometimes Bella. IMG_1550

(Dahlia doing her sassy power walk it is so funny!)

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    Every (I MEAN EVERY!!!) night she wakes up several times and wont cant whatever go to sleep with out someone laying down with her for a while (usually till she is almost asleep and we sneak out, then she notices screams crys and eventually  I go in again...)  Last night was awful she wouldn't fall asleep and I was SO tired and Bella wouldn't sleep, so they took turns crying till late, and the house was a mess, cause I couldn't do anything but feed and hold Bella and get meals.

Dahlia & Bella on bed (the two culprits!! )

Poor Josh was out on the couch really sick with a stomach bug or food poisoning... And today started the same..Josh is still sick but since the kids were exhausted we started them to bed very early and BECAUSE OF YOUR PRAYERS we had EVERYONE (kids) in bed quiet by 7! with out another peep!! NOTHING!! we were even able to watch a movie with out one single interuption,,, (well almost Josh's stomach flared up a bit but still )AMAZING!!  Can I just say again that NEVER happens.  THANK YOU GOD!! We are so blessed by your prayers.  WE needed that peace and quiet to recharge for the next day.  we were running on fumes!  We watched Fireproof what an awesome movie!!  Thank you all so much for your prayers.  just wanted to let you know right away they are working and we are feeling them!  Love you guys, Kristy

PS mom and dad hope you are not expecting an immaculate home with a guest room!  We will be giving you our living room with a sheet for a wall (that is if you brought a spare one! he he), and we will aim to have the dishes done and to hide the laundry!  Love you guys can’t wait!